Everyone's life is the porcess of finding love. In everybody's whole life,
there are always four person to meet.
The first one is you, yourself.
The second one is the one you love the most.
The third one is the one who love you the most.
The fourth one is your better half who will accompany you for the rest
of your life.
At first, you will meet the one you love the most and experience the
feeling of love; becaue now you know about the feeling of being loved by
someone, then you will meet the second person who loves you the most;
after you have experiened loving someone and being loved by someone,
you have learned how to love and got to know what exactly you want.
Therefore, the next person, which you are going to meet is the one who
will accompany with you for the whole life.
But the sad part is: in the real life, these three person are not always the
same one. The one you love most didn't choose you; the one who love
you most, however, it's not your choice; the one who becames your life
parter, unfortunately, is not the one who you love the most or the one
who loves you the most. It is only because she appears at the very right
time in yor life. And then you two come together and live together
forever.
Whcih person you will be in other person's life?
Nobody is intended to change her heart. When she loves you, she really
loves you; when she no longer loves you, she also mean it. When one
loves you, she cannot pretend to not love you; while when one don't love
you any more, she also cannot pretend to love you. Therefore, when one
person is going to leave you because she doesn't love you anymore, just
let it go. If you still love her, you should wish her a happy life. When you
are trying to stop her from getting her happy life, It means that you are
not loving her anymore.
To love is not to possess.
You love the moon, but you cannot take the moon into your basin for
your own. Yet the moonlight can still get into your room.
In another word, if you love someone, you can own her in an
alternative way: to let your love become the eternal memory in you life.
When you are falling love with someone, you can never speak out the
reasons why you love her. The only thing you know is that you just
want her to be together with you whenever, wherever, and no matter
you are happy or upset.
To be apart is the inevitable test between you and her. Be wise to give up
when something goes wrong of your love because the true love will
never turn into complains.
People who fall in love often ask their lovers to promise something, and
to swear to the God that she will never change her heart to someone
else. However, all these swearings are very fragile and unpractical.
Never trust them! On the contrary, it's always better to swear that you
cannot promise to do something other than swear you can do
something. Pleasee remeber: the most attractive promise is the one which
can never come true!
In love, to say is one thing, while to do is another thing. Don't make
yourself so childish and stupid to believe those untested words!
As for the four person I am talking about today. How about you, my
friend? who have you found in your life? the second one, the third one
or the fourth one?